Being with a mama’s boy is basically like dating him and his mother.
It is good to be with a man who values his mother but his life shouldn’t be centered around her.
Everything he does is all about her and you wonder if he is dating you or the mother.
The mother also reciprocates in this odd type of relationship, as a matter of fact she doesn’t want his little boy to be taken by any other woman if it is not her. Your life is a constant battle between him and his mother and sometimes you just need confirmation that you are dating a mama’s boy. Here are all the signs you need to look out for.
1. She shows up unannounced.
No one, not even your closest relatives have the right to show up to your house unannounced. So whether you’re married, living together or dating a mother should be courteous enough to call before just showing up.
2. She still does everything for him.
I mean everything, as a matter of fact he still takes his laundry to his mother’s place every so often. He cannot cook or do anything for himself because his mother will sort it out. So in short you’re not only dating a mama’s boy but you’re also dating a brat.
3. He still lives with his mother out of choice and not circumstance.
It’s not because he lost his job or he is working on a new project so he has to save money. Nope, this man has a job with a salary that can allow him to pay rent but he would rather stay with his mummy.
4. She calls all the damn time.
Keep in mind that this is not an underage man we’re talking about. Your mum probably calls you every so often but your man’s mum must call him all the damn time and it is annoying.
5. She doesn’t think anyone is good enough for her son.
Not you, not Beyonce or the Princess of Saudia Arabia. If it is not her then no one else is good enough unless he dates someone who can suck up to her full time.
6. He blindly follows everything she says.
If she says he should give her all his money that is exactly what he will do. He never questions what he is told as long as it is by his mother.
7. He can’t even stand up for himself or for you.
She might be wrong half of the time or be bitchy but he can never come out and tell her.
8. He consults her before doing anything.
I mean everything, he doesn’t even trust Google enough. He asks her advice about you, his work and everything even when he doesn’t need to.
9. He compares you to her.
You’re not his mother or his sister. You were not raised in the same household so this guy needs to take a chill pill and love you for who you are. If not then you need to date someone with grown up pants.